Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let the lady glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I have done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my option to make an effort to keep in touch with her, but if she sets the record right because of the gf, hopefully she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a problem to your guy being the problem, that will be what is happening.
Katie July 17, 2012, 9:50 am
As well as, exactly just exactly what would you wanna bet that he’s feeding their brand new gf your whole “crazy ex” routine to describe why they talk most of the time? And was operating into one another actually just a coincidence?
Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am
I am able to understand why you’ll believe that means, it isnt nice to not be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe perhaps not the ex-BF relationship that is current. Thats simply a complicator. The LW can only just get a handle on her very own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. Their relationship with new GF is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls need not be buddies at all. It might you need to be yet another backlink to the man for the LW, who’s attempting to cut ties that are emotional.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july
Thats a point that is good sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I familiar with be buddies using this set of guys whom used to have such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then we realised it ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. As well as the girls had been all simply normal individuals who, you understand, desired to determine if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:04 am
Yea. Its love, when that takes place enough times- what’s the denominator that is common? YOU MIGHT BE!!
I do feel harmful to this new GF. She deserves to possess a guy’s complete attention. And she deserves a man who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her he nevertheless longs for her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW since the man is telling her a couple of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:09 am
Personally I think bad on her too, but she has to watch out for by herself. Its difficult being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but thats really why many people go into all of them with their eyes spacious. Oh and the man has to quit dropping “But We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the method the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, maybe you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands which he features a GF, he could be simply in search of a effect each time he claims it. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care if you do have a GF, i am going to nevertheless blow you” or “Dump that skank, and get back to me”
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am
Yea, its like whenever i was in twelfth grade and me personally and my boyfriend would split up almost every other week, in which he would “accidently” text me personally or something like that just therefore we would fight and obtain straight back together.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 2:45 pm
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and obtain straight right straight back together”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am
I’ve said right here a great deal, if the guy whips out of the word “crazy” I operate one other method. I understand therefore lots of men whom use that word to full cover up because of their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy when you look at the beginning. I recently state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact which you put a “crazy” label onto it, makes me think you might be one that loves to stir the muck.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Also, if you’re happy to phone some body crazy, wouldn’t which means that you will be kinda crazy too?
Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm
Therefore real! When the “crazy” comes away, Im operating one other means. I do believe it had been stated above- once you attract the crazy, the typical denominator is constantly YOU, buddy.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july
The truth is, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that if this sugar daddy for me com occurred to her she most likely could be upset about this too, and yet she will continue to respond to this dudes calls and even though he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of the bull shit.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 10:26 am
Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman because your simply planning to cause drama. You must just understand he’s maybe maybe not your boyfriend as well as that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am
That is a point that is great you guys. I didnt think about it like this.
So LW, if you actually do respect their relationship and wish them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (I like you, eljay) said, some one needs to end up being the adult in this example. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.
Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july
Amen bestie – we accept you about talking to your girlfriend. That knows just exactly what this guy has said concerning the LW to justify their chatting so often, but even though the relationship is none of these company, the truth that the LW plus the brand new gf have actually met now i believe enables the LW some freedom. If I’d held it’s place in a scenario where a buddy brought somebody around that I had heard of and wished to be friends with (I’m planning to assume that the LW desires that? ) and it went horribly, i would touch base and get, hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly. She doesn’t fundamentally need to state, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend was saying _____ in my opinion and he’s the only calling, in which he said you’re ok with this particular, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I happened to be beneath the impression you had been ok with your being buddies, but i simply noticed I’m maybe perhaps maybe not ok with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july
I’dn’t keep in touch with the gf about it. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And merely to share with you you respect her relationship? I might think you had been bullshitting me personally and head that is playing. Just just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t desire to hear them alone from him for a while, and then leave. Seriously they probably won’t workout because you may be nevertheless into the photo (which does not do great things for a brand new relationship), but allow them work that out on their own.
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:39 am
Oh in addition, if we had been the latest gf and my bf and I also went into their ex at a club I would personally additionally need that individuals leave straight away. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everyone else pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay whenever your SO’s ex appears, but why? You don’t have to be okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:28 am
