Dear Abby: i recently discovered my husband of 18 years happens to be going to “hook-up” sites. He states he had been simply studying the pictures, but I don’t believe him. He has been caught by me cheating twice into the past, therefore it’s difficult to trust him.

My issue is, he understands we can’t keep him because i’ve no task, no abilities, no cash — nothing. We went from the comfort of my moms and dads’ home to coping with him after our wedding. We now have six young ones and something on the way. He can continue steadily to head to these sites I am stuck because he knows. Just What do I need to do?

— Soon-to-be Mother of Seven

Dear Soon-to-be Mother of Seven: The initial thing you have to do is see your doctor and start to become checked for STDs. If you’re well, thank your greater energy. In the event that you aren’t, get therapy, get well and communicate with a attorney.